Humanist Funerals

Humanist funerals in Scotland

Joyous. Uplifting. Comforting. Authentic.

Joyous. Uplifting. Comforting. Authentic. These aren’t words you normally associate with funerals, are they? They’re the ones people use about ours.

People choose Humankind funerals because they are focussed on the life lived, and our role is to help you express your feelings for the person you love. Often that means telling their story, and we will help you find the best way to do that. Humankind funerals are inclusive, and always include time for reflection and silent prayer. We increasingly find that not only are families choosing to speak, but inviting friends to do so as well, and we welcome their participation with open arms.

Just as there is no one way to live a good life, there’s no one good way to leave it, and alternatives to cremation are becoming increasingly popular; natural burials, living funerals and memorial ceremonies.  We welcome the opportunity to discuss these, with both bereaved families, and individuals preparing for their own death.

At Humankind, while we believe we should celebrate the one life we have, we also believe that grieving and mourning are fundamental to the healing process. While research shows that most of us want ‘a celebration of life’ when we die, it isn’t obligatory. There are times when it would be inappropriate, and it would be wrong to think that’s what a Humankind funeral has to be.

You spoke so beautifully about our parents and helped us see so many positives in a time full of pain and heartbreak. You touched every soul in the chapel with your personal and heartfelt words and made our day as positive a celebration as it could be.

You perfectly crafted a speech to reflect my Dad, and delivered the service with flair. What a celebration it was! You had us all laughing, crying and reminiscing.

Thank you for the service …There was laughter and tears, and folks’ souls were touched. It was exactly like my mum would have wanted. We celebrated her life, and our stories of her were spoken by you with heartfelt candour.

Humanist funerals FAQ

Why do people choose a humanist funeral?

People often tell us they'd been to one for a friend or family member, and felt it was meaningful, honest, personal and moving. They could recognise the person being talked about, so when the funeral was over, they said to themselves ‘that’s what I’m having!’

Do you have to be a humanist to have a humanist funeral?

No. Very few of our ceremonies are for people who would call themselves ‘humanists’. Sometimes even people of faith choose a humanist funeral, because they’re personal, meaningful and up lifting.

Do you allow religious content?

Yes. Humanists recognise that religion has been a part of our lives for thousands of years. We are happy to include hymns and prayers if they were important in the life of the deceased, but not as an act of worship.

What do you charge for ceremonies for children?

We make no charge for ceremonies for children under the age of 16.

Do you offer discounts?

We are happy to offer reduced fees for people experiencing financial hardship.